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omeone noticed that the internals of the post debate CNN poll show that they purposefully created a sampling field that bears no resemblance to the American electorate.  If you think about what went into this actual poll, and consider how CNN put it together, it’s purpose from the get-go was deception!

It had to be planned in advance, too many bizarro-world things go on at CNN for it to just be happenstance!

The guys at InfoWars write:

Almost three quarters of the respondents were not Republicans and 57% more Democrats were asked than Republicans. If the sampling was flipped, with 41% of respondents being Republican and just 26% identifying as Democrats, the outcome would almost certainly have been in Trump’s favor.

Liberals are all over the news today declaring victory yet there is only 1 poll that shows Clinton winning the debate, this cooked CNN poll.

Additionally, as a bot coder myself, it’s impossible to surmise that the other thousand polls that disagree with CNN’s dishonest poll are wrong.  Botting on that level would be nearly impossible due to the sheer amount of polls where Trump wins.

If you are so certain that you are winning, or have won, then why do you have to deceive in order to show a ‘win’?

There is a noticeable lack of confidence in Hillary, and you should read every piece of ‘news-spin’ with that in the back of your mind until election day, in the meantime get ready to vote!

Also if you haven’t seen this gem, take a look, it’s the results of Gallup doing research on the ‘trustworthiness’ of the media, and it’s at an all time low.

Most honest people, when confronted with ‘7 of 10 people think you are full of crap’ would do some serious soul searching, not the media, their response is to double down on lying!

Gallup Trust in Media Poll

Since Obama has been in office, the ‘trust in mass media’ has declined 15 points from 47% pre-Obama in 2007, to 32% on September 16, 2016.

Look at the results of the poll, notice that confidence drops in 2008, reflecting the serial dishonesty regarding coverage of Obama’s first term campaign.  From there, confidence briefly recovers and levels off until 2012 where again the media breathlessly took off the mask during the Romney campaign, another noticeable drop.  This is followed by a brief recovery, then ultimately tanking.

The public is on to the ‘news’ scam!

Katy Tur has a penchant for asking questions and when not getting an answer that fits her narrative, interrupting the person answering the question in order to ‘steer’ the comment in a direction that would be more beneficial to her reporting.

She’s basically David Gregory without a penis, and while you may think that’s a harsh assessment, here’s the video proof! (we miss you Tony Snow!)

She did this to Donald Trump today and Trump was having none of it!

If you listen closely you can hear Katy’s manufactured outrage.

OMG, the Russians have hacked the Democratic National Committee(DNC)!

Well, except no one is sure that the Russians are indeed the ones that hacked the DNC server.  The narrative put forward by the DNC is that the Russians are the party responsible for the hack.

Feral Katy Tur
Feral Katy in action!

Regardless who hacked the emails it changes nothing regarding the substance of the corruption that has been laid bare for everyone to see, THAT is the REAL story here.

I have to wonder if this is really helping relations between the two countries.

I don’t imagine that bringing allegations, that may be false, to the table is going to ‘win friends and influence people’ in Russia.  If anything it drives a wedge in US/Russian relations, but most journalists are happy to carry the narrative without thinking it through.

The DNC has money coming in from everywhere, honestly, can’t you hire a competent security firm?  If you can’t secure an email server, you sure in the hell can’t secure a whole country!

The DNC is a corporation, all of a sudden the media is concerned about the leaking of internal corporate emails.

Wonder if we will see the same level of outrage should Exxon endure the same unfortunate circumstance?

I won’t hold my breath on that one…

I’m starting to understand the feelings of the African-American community. I don’t want to comment on specifics because frankly we know very little about the shooting in Minnesota.

If you can, imagine for a minute an inner-city African American kid who has joined the Armed Forces and has a desire to serve his country honestly. One day he accidentally takes home classified information and notifies his Superior Officer upon returning it, sharing the details that caused him to make the mistake with an apology offered from his heart.

The Commanding Officer, doing HIS due diligence would then write up this young man, strip him of his clearance and pursue Non-Judicial or perhaps Judicial Punishment where he could be Court-Martialed, jailed, fined, and dishonorably discharged.

There would be no special treatment for him, he’s just a cog in the system.

Now, on the other end of the spectrum we have a white woman, the absolute definition of ‘white-privilege’ who has done FAR WORSE, even to the point of an FBI investigation, yet even after hearing all of the evidence of her guilt laid bare, she gets off scot-free due to being the most powerful woman in America.

What have evidenced this week is; there is one system for the less fortunate, and another system for the Democratic candidate, and it’s horrific.

As a citizen I’m appalled at the treatment of the poor, and the DNC has shown that they really don’t care for the average American, winning elections is more important than truth.

This is not the country that I have fought in a war to protect anymore, I fought to protect every American’s rights, not just the political elite.

Thread updated, the last bot net is now manned after I found it, but is still re-tweeting away!  Additionally, H/T to Mark Buchanan for reporting on the issue, he writes “Could the same happen in the U.S. and Europe?” Yes, and it’s happening now, but the bot nets are getting better, moving beyond poorly created now. Read Mark’s piece here

Andrew Kalven has found another bot-net on Twitter, post updated

Update: July 21 5:57PM

Andrew Klavan has discovered another bot net:

Andrew Klaven finds another bot-net


You might be wondering why I know so much about bot-nets, that would be because I’ve created them for clients, and one of the focuses of our business is web automation (read more here).

Poorly constructed bot nets are very easy to spot because they are famous for not having a profile picture or cover image on Twitter, thus defaulting to the profile ‘egg image’ on Twitter.

On Facebook most bot-nets will use the picture of a smokin’ hot girl in a compromising position, and that account will ramble on about 1 or 2 subjects, post links to products, or click-bait stories, from here to eternity.

Amanda is so popular that she hasn’t even said anything yet but she already has followers!

Another way that you can easily can spot a bot-net is by the usernames (like the examples in the image on the right), notice the random strings of numbers after the username.

The reason for this character string is so that your profile creating robot doesn’t accidentally run into an real live person with the same username, which would cause the ‘account creator bot’ to crash.

SIDEBAR: Bot nets are the reason that Twitter’s stock is going down, but the number of users is going up.  Bot nets cause ad impressions to go up but return on investment for advertisers to go down.  Click-bots are the bane of pay-per-click advertisers.

A well executed bot net can drive massive amounts of traffic to your websites, additionally, you can program your bots to spread a political message, send links to your products, etc.

If you are almost instantaneously attacked on Twitter or Facebook for something that you post, it’s most likely a bot net that is setup to reply to negative (or any) message.

Bot Nets Have a Lot of Shady Friends

Another hallmark of a bot net is looking at their friends, if you look at the following image on the left, you will notice that they are all following one another, and they have no description.  DO NOT go to any of their profiles if you are at work, they are 99% porn (don’t say that I didn’t warn you).

Porn bot-nets
These bots cater to men’s weaknesses, pornography.

This is a no-no in the bot-net community, you should never link them together!  When 1 account gets banned they all do, totally a ‘jayvee’ move. Also, this screams ‘automation’ since none of the descriptions are completed.

However, we should give this guy props for at least having a profile picture and a cover image, but they are used to get the male juices flowing so that the person will click the ad and go to the porn site where they will earn a portion of the signup fee (affiliate commission).

Very Effective When Used Correctly!

While the run-of-the-mill bot creator is usually fixed on getting paid an affiliate commission, there new creators are focusing on a higher goal, winning elections.

The following article in Bloomberg details how one man was convicted, and currently in prison, for helping to fix the results of elections, his tactics were very effective if you read the article.  With this in mind I’ve been on the lookout for bot supporters of any political persuasion.

I’ll make it a point to show you many more!

Another bot net
Come on man, you’re not even trying anymore #fail

Bot Nets Have Good Uses Too

A good bot net could be very useful for catching online criminals, online forensics, as well as busting other bot-nets, so they can be used for good, or used to break the law just like anything else…

There’s a question that needs to be asked regarding the Hillary Clinton investigation and I think that James Comey alluded to it in his testimony today.

He’s a bright man, he more than likely knew that he would be dragged in front of Congress, and then he could let the cat out of the bag and detail OTHER felonies that were committed that hadn’t been looked into.

Here’s his testimony:

There was a statute passed in 1917 that on its face makes it a crime, a felony, for someone to engage in gross negligence. So, that would appear to say … maybe it’s enough to prove they were just really careless beyond a reasonable doubt. At the time Congress passed that statute in 1917, there was a lot of concern in the House and Senate about whether that was going to violate the American tradition of requiring that before you’re going to lock somebody up, you prove they knew they were doing something wrong…. As best I can tell, the Department of Justice has used it once in the 99 years since, reflecting that same concern. I know from 30 years with the Department of Justice they have grave concerns about whether it’s appropriate to prosecute somebody for gross negligence, which is why they’ve done it once … in a case involving espionage.
-James Comey, FBI Director 7/7/2016

Did James Comey purposely not prosecute Hillary on the basis that he knew the case would blow up in the media if she was charged with a statue that was written and only used once in the last 100 years?

AND with that in mind would he use a ‘tell’ (in poker terms) to instruct Congress which rock that they should be looking under to find felonies that have recently been tried with a slam dunk?

It seems pretty obvious to me that he is hinting in this direction:

Chaffetz asked Comey whether he had reviewed Clinton’s testimony before the Benghazi committee as part of his inquiry. He said that he had not, but that he was aware of it. Chaffetz also asked Comey whether Clinton had lied to the FBI, and he said he did not have reason to believe she had done so. -Breitbart

Time will tell but the other felonies are as obvious as heck to the American public!

“Did you review the documents where Congressman Jim Jordan asked her specifically, and she said ‘There was nothing marked classified on my emails either sent or received.’ … Did the FBI investigate her statements under oath on this topic?” Congressman Chaffetz asked.

“Not to my knowledge — I don’t think there has been a referral from Congress,” Director Comey replied.

“Do you need a referral from Congress to investigate her statements under oath?” Congressman Chaffetz asked.

“Sure do,” Comey replied.

“You’ll have one. You’ll have one in the next few hours,” Chaffetz said -Law Newz

This gives Comey the perfect alibi, “I had to look into this because of the Congress demanded it!”

This shifts the burden of investigating to the ‘Republican Congress’ and should he recommend charges it’s no longer him but the Republicans that will bear the burden.

Everything that I’m going to report on here is 100% truth, I’m doing my best to not editorialize but instead provide you with facts, without hyperbole.

We had a very successful business with a friend that eventually turned sour in the late 90’s / early 2000’s and we came out of the selling of the company with a sizable tax debt. Since we already had student loans, we entered a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, this was the only way that we could shore up the taxes and student loans at the same time. With that in mind we paid everything off over the course of 53 months, every payment made, on time, all the way to discharge.

The slate is clean! Our credit was excellent, very thankful. This is very important as you will see later on.

More Trials

To say that the last 5 years have been devastating would be putting it very mildly!

My wages were cut 25% so I moved on to another company where my salary doubled, however after 8 months the company decided to go another route and I got layed-off, it took me 6 months for find another job. The company ended up going with another computer language and decided to get someone more skilled than myself in that language, which I totally understand.

Fast forward another 8 months and I had a heart attack, stents in place it’s all good!

As you may imagine, this was crippling financially and we ended up missing a payment on our mortgage but managed to get an agreement with CitiMortgage and our repayment plan was working out well, problem solved, we didn’t have much to live on but we could make it.

My wife and I are both Desert Storm vets with honorable discharges and you would think that there are options available for us, but since we had a VA Loan, none of the great refi options / help that you see on TV are available to folks with VA loans, stunning but true.

I apologize for my long-windedness however it’s necessary to understand the context of the situation.

Stage Set, Freaking 2015

Starting in January of 2015 I had been receiving letters from a company that were very poorly written, in fact they looked like they were written by a traditional scammer with a typewriter.

The letters were claiming that I owed the company around $17,000 in student loans in 2001, and they were allegedly ‘collecting’ the debt, the one that I payed off through The Department of Justice via chapter 13 bankruptcy mentioned above. So with that in mind I threw out the letters and chalked it up to Nigerian scammers or something, I had paid those debts through the US Government, every penny.

Furthermore I had not taken any college classes in 2001, this was definitely a scam, so I thought.

My Poor Beautiful Wife

My wife was rear-ended by an uninsured lady on an Alaskan freeway. Traffic had come to a full stop and the gal was jerking around, trying to find something on the floorboard of her car and plowed into our mini-van going 55MPH.

The force of the accident drove our mini-van underneath the full sized van in front of her, and forced THAT van into another car, and another car, and another, totaling 5 cars in ‘the accident’. This caused her to end up with chronic back pain due to 3 herniated disks.

Freaking March 2015

Sadly, my wife’s pain was getting worse and there wasn’t much that could be done about it, she had fusion surgery the summer before, and while that turned out well, she still had 2 other herniated disks.

This was literally the toughest time in my life, I would wake on a Saturday (or any day) and look over to my bride and she would have tears streaming down her cheeks due to the immense pain. The doctors upped her medication to a point where she could live with it (sort of), but it was causing problems at work due to the effects of her medication.

Eventually it came to the point where she could not work. She fell asleep at a traffic light and when she got home I had to make the decision to tell her to quit her job, it was simply not an option any more.

I figured out our budget and if we pinched EVERY penny we could still make it, barely. She ended up tearfully quitting her job on March 15th, she loved her work and the people that she worked with.

Enter the US Government

On the VERY SAME DAY that my wife had to quit her job, I got an email from my employer explaining that my wages were going to be garnished due to my ‘unpaid’ student loans (the ones that I paid via the Department of Justice).

Every argument went unanswered, and my pay was reduced by 10%, additionally that week I discovered that the IRS had seized my $3,500 tax return that we were expecting any day now.

Wife’s income gone, tax return gone, 10% of my income gone on top of the 25% that I lost with my wage cut.

You don’t have to be a CPA to see that we had literally no money at all, ZERO. Paying our electric bill, my current student loans (I got my degree in 2008), and trying to feed our 4 kids was nearly impossible and I ‘made too much money’ (less than $45k per year) for Food Stamps.

Lawyers Don’t Represent Poor People

I totally understand this, no one wants to work for free! Thankfully, the lawyers who were compassionate enough to listen were telling me to go to court, a judge would hear our case and get rid of the garnishment.

With this in mind I headed down to the local courthouse and they would not schedule a hearing without a case number. Case number? I didn’t have a case number, there was no court date set to discuss the garnishment, they just did it.

This is the day that I found out that there was absolutely nothing that I could do since student loans are a ‘Federal’ issue. The chances of some random guy (me) getting on a Federal docket are less than zero.

The US Government doesn’t need to go through a court to garnish your wages, it just happens and you have no recourse. No Judge, no telling your side of the story, nothing.

Thankfully, we found an attorney that would hear our story and he went to bat for us with $600 that I had to take from my 401K (that would take more from our monthly income when paid back).

THANK GOD, he got the garnishment removed!!! Well not so fast…

Here’s Where the Fun Begins

When they unlawfully garnished my wages I couldn’t make my house payment which violated the agreement that I had previously made with CitiMortgage, so we lost our house in September of last year, sold at a sheriffs sale, we had 6 months to be out.

Additionally, I had legit student loans from when I got my degree in 2008 that were in deferment however, the deferment status on those loans was up, and there was nothing that I could do about it, so those loans went into default status.

When they went into default, they re-garnished my wages…

Insult to Injury

I understand that CitiMortgage had to do what they had to do, no hard feelings, so I made a pact with myself that I would keep the house in good shape for them.

We kept up the yard and made the house look nice however, since we could not afford the electrical bill (we literally didn’t have an extra dollar to our name) it got shut off.

On December 27th I went with my daughter and shut off the water to the house and drained the pipes so that the water lines would not freeze and burst. At the time we were still using the house as storage for all of our personal effects, hoping that by our ‘move out’ date of March 16th we could get our stuff into a storage locker.

While stopping by to pick up the mail, my wife noticed that the windows were fogged up so she went inside and discovered that the basement had flooded. The floor drains backed up, something that had never happened in 50 years. Our master bedroom was down there so a sizable amount of our personal effects were destroyed.

At this time I was finally broken, this house was owned by my grandparents before they passed away. My grandfather bought it after he came home from World War II, I felt and still feel like a total failure, I went to where we are staying and just wept.

The Worst Part

Since we had an unseasonably warm winter, the water in the basement evaporated upstairs and with all of that moisture, nearly everything we owned had an ugly shade of green mold on it, it was a total loss.

Some Good News

My precious wife ended up having her second spinal fusion in November which worked! It has cut her pain down to a manageable level! Seeing her smile makes me so happy! She even managed to halt her SS disability claim, the idea of us living off of the people that we graciously served is a non-starter, if we can work, we work!

She’s now happy and back to work which is helping however, at this point it really doesn’t matter, our debt is so bad that I feel like I’m trying to bail out the Titanic with a shot glass.

The Best News

In the New Testament we are promised two things: Food and Clothing

I’m happy to report to you that through all of this my children, my wife and I are not naked (the neighbors are rejoicing), we have clothes! Additionally, as you can see I’m writing this, so we have food! Not sure what will happen from this point on but if The Lord put you through a similar trial would you make it? Would you still love Him? We do!

We’re thankful! Poor, but thankful!

In Conclusion

The Federal Government has come to the point where you really have no recourse as a brick in their wall. You cannot get on the phone and ‘make things right’, find someone to listen to your case, or even make a plea at all, unless you are an attorney. It’s turned into a faceless machine that simply rolls over the bodies of the poor, I know, I have lived through this.

I don’t know the answer, but I do know what it is not, more government.

PS: We’re not bitter at all, we’re thankful, but we’re also wiser.

If you would be so kind please RT so that our fellow citizens can read, thank you so much ~much love

I’m sitting here in the waiting room while my wife is in the other room having spinal surgery, so what I’m going to tell you is based on experience!

Kindles and iPads and Smartphones, Oh My!

Be Happy, Follow Our GuideMake sure that you bring some kind of electronic device to pass away the hours while you’re waiting for your loved one to get out of surgery. I brought along an iPad so that I would have something to do to pass the time while waiting for my wife’s surgery to be completed.

Having the iPad along made this long, tiring, wait a lot more bearable. Additionally, I brought along some work to do and three ebooks to read during the time that she was under the knife and as it turns out, the surgery lasted about four hours. The great thing is the internet connection was free even though the operation itself cost thousands of dollars, I guess nothing is really ‘free’!

It’s very sad because I heard a lot of people that were very stressed about their loved ones however, if they would’ve thought ahead and brought something to get their mind off the subject they would have had a peaceful afternoon. Thank God none of them have had bad news today, all of the procedures went as planned, and of everyone that I met, their procedures went off without a hitch.

Meanwhile, I was dutifully reading my books and taking notes, my mind was off in web development land.  This alone made the afternoon go by very quickly and thankfully, not one time did I think about the doctors opening up wife’s spine in the other room!  Honestly, that would’ve been too much to endure.

Don’t Forget Your Headphones

This smiling baby melts our heartBring along some headphones, although the reason might surprise you, they are not for what you think. While you’re sitting there waiting for your significant other to get out of their procedure you’ll be surrounded by people that have no idea what is going on, and they will be very stressed out, and they will be talking very loudly on their cell phones.

To me, people talking very loudly is stressful enough! While using headphones I can play some soft music while reading a book and not be aware of what’s going on around me, and this is very comforting.

What NOT bring is as Important as What TO Bring

Be sure to pay attention to your doctors adviceThis one has more to do with what you should not bring along! Leave all of your relatives that tend to worry and stress out very easily at home. This is not the time to have them in your presence. You can relay any messages through Facebook and tell everyone to go there because you will be updating your Facebook page with all of the latest medical news.  There’s nothing to gain having a stressed-out relative along for the ride, well, other than a headache.

Very Important, Basic Cosmetics

Have a travel bag along with some cosmetics like a toothbrush and toothpaste as well as some word searches and magazines. Additionally bring along a few extra shirts, I spilled coffee on my shirt this morning so rather than walking around looking like a fool I just changed my shirt!

Something You Can’t Bring in a Bag: Patience

Bring along a bunch of extra patience!

Keep in mind that the hospital is always a stressful place and that you should be aware of others and their mental state. It’s certainly not pleasant being around a bunch of people who are stressed out, but please understand their situation.

Keep in mind that the hospital is always a stressful place and that you should be aware of others and their mental state.

I was sitting next to a girl earlier whose mother had cancer, and she was very stressed out wondering if they were going to get all of the cancer out of her, I was praying for her. I just tried to be there as someone to talk to in this troubling time in her life.  Of course I’m not positive that my words did anything to ease her nerves, however I would like to think so!

Bring Some Snacks to Avoid the Profiteers!

After paying $11 for a meal at the Subway located within the hospital, I would be remiss if I didn’t mention to bring along some snacks! The ‘meal’ opportunities in the hospital are not the best, to say the least. It’s probably better that you bring along some homemade snacks to ease the burden on your pocketbook.

Your loved one could be in the hospital for days, be sure to take this into account!Additionally, it kind it just makes you pissed off when you see the prices of hospital food, they understand that you’re a captive audience and that you will pay anything just to get something to eat, so they jack the prices up accordingly!

If you follow this basic hospital checklist it will help you greatly, my wife just came out of surgery and she is now in the recovery room, she made it through with flying colors THANK GOD.

I have to go now, wishing you all the best!

A woman needs to make her husband feel loved and appreciated. Are you going to rough time in your marriage right now? Or, are you bored? Maybe you need something to spice up the relationship. Let me share with you what I recently learned. 

How to: Sex After Marriage

How to Have Good Sex in MarriageMy husband and I wanted to spice up our sex life. I’ve been having "problems" in that area for quite a while. OK, when you get down to it, I have not been able to have an orgasm in a while. So we went to the sex shop to see what we could find to spice it up a bit. 

I had been to a sex shop in Europe many years ago. But it was very impersonal and just straight-up porn. This was different. What we couldn’t believe was that we had been married well over 20 years, and this was our first trip together to a sex shop. 

I was very embarrassed about some of the items they had for sale. However, I mustered all my courage and boldly picked up a display bottle of tasty liquid which was used to pleasure in as many ways as the mind can think of.

Instantly, a sales clerk appeared, asking me if she could help me? I asked if the liquid pleasure as as slick as Astro-Glide? She informed me it was better. After talking about it for a few minutes, I felt comfortable enough to tell her my real reason for being there. "I can’t have an orgasm," I blurted out.

My husband had left my side when the clerk showed up, and he was hiding over in the Halloween costumes that were on sale. Wow, great costumes at great prices! Anyway, the clerk led me to the new, high-tech vibrators they had. 

What amazed me was how knowledgeable the staff was, and how professional they were. I began to realize how uptight I was (we were?) about sex.  Instead of running in to the store hand-in-hand, we snuck in, afraid of who might see us.

Don’t Let Life Go By Having Bad Sex in Marriage

Ladies, here’s secret number one : in order to please your man, you have to be having a great time yourself. Don’t fake it; you will only lose out. Why wouldn’t you want to spend an afternoon rolling around under the covers with the man you love most? (I heard that on Dr Laura back in 2006 or so). 

"I can’t have an orgasm," I blurted out.

After purchasing some "necessities " we went out to the car to leave, anxious to try out our new "necessities". 

Upon leaving we discovered that the battery on the car was dead! Not only were we embarrassed going into the sex shop, imagine our horror at the thought of calling AAA for a jump start and explaining to the gal on the phone where we were located!

Thankfully, again, the sales clerk cam to our aid and in addition to all of the wonderful advice that she gave us in the store, she helped us jump start our car in the parking lot as well…

Keep in mind that you can shop online and avoid all embarrassment however the downside is you will not get to see any of the ‘toys’ in action or hear about the products from the clerks which are there to help. 

Households around the world are likely to breath a sigh of relief with the invention of a Japanese robot that will not only wash and dry clothes, but also sort them out, fold them up and put them away neatly in the cupboard.

The world’s first laundry bot – dubbed “the laundroid” – has been created by a team of Japanese technology companies in a bid to eliminate the tedium of carrying out one of the least popular household chores.

A public demonstration of the automated laundry robot washing a white shirt took place for the first time in Tokyo at the 2015 Combined Exhibition of Advanced Technologies, an international technology trade show.”

Scientists in Japan have likely hit upon an invention that every home in the world would love to have, a robot that does laundry!

Forget about that chore that is hated in every household, this new piece of technology will sort, wash, dry, and even fold your laundry!  Hopefully, they will mass produce and get the price of this ‘must have’ electronic gadget down to a reasonable price.  We can go back to our childhoods and see the benefits of mass production by looking at the rapid production of the hand held calculator.

Mom’s around the world would probably love to see this wonderful gadget ‘fast-tracked’, and government funded, due to the amount of time that it would save in their everyday lives.  We can only hope…

You can read more about this gadget here on the Telegraph.

Rekindling the fire in a marriage can be hard work, but it won’t cost as much as a divorce, and children will learn valuable lessons from reunited parents, who worked out their differences, instead of divorced and bitter ones. I think you would prefer to be united and better and not divorced and bitter.

Now that we have cleared the first hurdle, let’s look at the things couples can do to improve and strengthen their marriage.

Better Communication

Think about what caused disagreements and find ways to overcome the differences. Some compromise is good and it also helps when couples think about how valuable the relationship is to them. It makes them want to do more to protect it, and work towards fixing the problems, so that the feelings of anger and resentment can be erased. This will lead to the return of intimacy and romance in the marriage.

Better communication can also lead to a better sexual relationship and more satisfaction for each partner.

Show Appreciation

fiery marriage
Some time away could bring the fire back to your marriage

It is so easy for couples to take each other for granted, after they have spent a number of years together!

They stop using the little words that means a lot in their conversations, like “please” and ” thank you” . But words are very important, they can tear a relationship down or they can build it up.

So couples can start showing appreciation for the little things they took for granted before. Even though this might seem like a small gesture, it will make a big difference and soon you will find that partners will be doing more for each other and their love will grow.

Spending Quality Time Together

It is very easy to forget about the importance of spending time together because of all the bills we need to pay and taking care of the children’s needs.

But couples will find it easier to take care of their bills and other responsibilities when they spend time talking about their issues. They can sometimes find new ways to earn, and this can reduce the stress they face when they try to do things all by themselves.

Couples will also learn more about each other’s likes and dislikes and they will end up living in harmony, as they will be able to please each other more.

Dating Again

Words are very important, they can tear a relationship down or they can build it up.

It is good to start doing the same things you did at the beginning of the relationship again.

When this is done, you’ll find it easy to rekindle the passion you once shared, because of the great memories you had made before.  This will cause lovers to remember why they decided to get married in the first place, and they will even be creating new memories, so they will end up forgetting about divorce.

Soon the misunderstandings and the hurt can be swept away and life will be beautiful again as couples will realize that it is much better for them to enjoy each other’s company, then to tear each other down. As so much more can be achieved when relationships are doing well and great plans can be made for the future.

Having Fun Together:

It is easy to live a dull life, just working, paying bills, watching the television.

But when couples play games together, this will help them to have fun and they won’t end up seeing each other as a burden. After couples decide on which game they both like to play, they should find a way to fit this activity into their schedule and start playing together, or even with the children.

Some outdoor activity will be good for their physical health and if they start playing board games, this activity will be good for their mental health and they will have a lot more to smile about.

Soon ‘the spark’ will return and an ‘on fire’ marriage with happiness and joy will start to bloom once again.

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